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How to modify your child's behaviour positively.

If I write something and people read it with interest, I will continue doing so. If I write and nobody reads or even take a note of it, I may continue writing for while and if still my work remains unnoticed, gradually I will discontinue. Similarly if I dance, however graceful but if no one claps/appreciate/watch I will discontinue dancing. If I shout in rage and no one reacts/responds I will stop shouting. We all humans have a basic tendency to be noticed. We all are attention seeking creatures. We usually do and repeat those behaviours that attract attention of others, so are our children. But the difference between us and our children is we can control them as per the situation, place, time and person. More over we can differentiate between right & wrong, black & white, good & bad. Our children have limitations to differentiate between right & wrong, black & white, good & bad – for them getting attention by any means is the only and most important thi

Why am I here?

Hello everyone! This is about those children who are not disable but are DIFFERENTLY ABLE. Palak, my lovely daughter in spite of being a Down’s child is self sufficient. She studied in normal school with normal students and passed 12th grade with 49%. At present she is effectively and efficiently managing our 18 bedded hospital.  While rearing her I came across many special aspects of life that I would like to share with all the parents worldwide. During these twenty two long years I came across many parents having a special kid and I found most of them directionless. Some of them were more concerned about the society and social stigma, some found difficulty in sparing time and few were not happy with the attitude of others towards the child. To me it is all about accepting the child whole heartedly with utmost love and affection. We chose to become parents and so I am the sole responsible person for Palak’s existence on this Mother Earth.  After all what is society?